Well I have my answer , you are single , and after reading this article I am very impressed that you are my twin , I also feel the same exact way about relationships . I would never settle. I married very young, had two children who are almost my age now and they have children of their own. I am writing a book I am going to publish soon , I am very excited about it. I loved reading this article you wrote here. I did not think anyone thought the same way I do. My parents had 4 of us and well I am the baby. My parent passed from this life way to early. I did learn love . I know I am love and love being with me.That was something I did not get for a while but being single for over 30 yrs I learned it years ago and it was a great thing to learn. No one can be a better friend to you then yourself. I also love my children and grandchildren and the young ones bring me joy when I see them. Your article touched my heart on many levels. I brought in this valentines physically alone by choice myself but was and am at peace with that. I have done so many years. Not that I do not hope one day to perhaps happen upon a person who gets me and can have an awesome companionship. But life does not end before or after finding that person. I want a person I can share in this life with and if not I share with me :) Ty for your words keep up the great writing Handsome man :)